It is with feelings of both pride and humility that I as representative of the Uxbridge Graduating Class of 1951, rise to deliver the valedictory address. I can only hope that my remarks will be a reflection of the ideas of those for whom I speak.
This evening we are parting not only with a great school, but also with a definite period in our lives; a period in which a major development has taken place. It was as children that we came here. It is as young men and women with different ideals and aspirations that we say farewell. We did not as Shakespeare once said, "Creep like snails unwillingly to school" for we found our school not only the centre of learning but also the nucleus of our social and athletic life. It is with a nostalgic feeling that we reminisce about our initiation which was the beginning of a glorious five years. Always, there will linger the fond memories of daily assemblies which provided a welcome recess where we could momentarily forget our texts and turn to a lighter vein. Further fulfilling our lives are the recollections of inter-school basketball games and track meets where the Uxbridge banner was mostly at high mast. The preparation for Commencements was an invigorating part of Autumn School Life around U.H.S. and it was with a certain amount of satisfaction that we saw another successful culmination of hard work. The many Friday night dances in the auditorium which was always so superbly decorated for the gala occasion, likewise, will long be remembered, being but one more link in that endless chain of school festivities.
I believe it would be an omission on my part if I failed to mention the three school buses which had a significant role of their own in the life of the rural student. The Drivers, Mr. Tipper, Mr. Bain and Mr. Whetstone must be congratulated for their competency and, because of their leniency, those few hours of bus life each week were noisy and not soon to be forgotten.
Another memory which comes to mind is of the cadets. The discipline and training afforded by the cadets will be truly an asset and may inspire us to higher realizations in our life to come. It is with thanks that I, personally, am greatly indebted to the cadets for the splendid holiday I experienced this summer in the Canadian Rockies.
Of equal prominence to us will be the memories of our teachers. Even though our recollections will be different, our general impressions will be the same. We learned that our teachers were not merely disciplinarians and instructors but were also our guides and friends, giving freely of their time and energy to assist and advise the individual student. In the administration of the school, we found Mr. Bernhardt both friendly and helpful and I should like to express to you, Sir, our sincere gratitude for all that you have done for us. We will certainly recall Mr. Bernhardt and his ominous threat of the June guillotine, Miss McQuade and her apt philosophy, Mr. Russ and his subtle humour, Mrs. Dobson and the cheery songs that emanated from the ventilators and Mr. Cunningham with his genius in woodcraft. We have further recollections of Miss Smith, Miss O'Shaughnessy and Miss Hall of whom we associate French, Physical Education and "good looks."
Also, at this time, I would like to bestow our appreciation to the School Board and also to the Janitor, Mr. Tompkins, who was so prominent in the upkeep of our school.
On the threshold of a new life ahead, we look back and with a hint of remorse, we must admit that often we have not used our great opportunities to the fullest advantage. In varied instances, we have fallen short of the few responsibilities with which we were confronted but the realizations of our shortcoming will, undoubtedly, make us live more fully in the days to come. Surely, friends, is not that the purpose of education? Education can only awaken the dormant spirit with which we are endowed. And, so reluctant though we are to leave this great school, as always when we have something dear to us, yet we are cheerful at the prospect of the coming years when the influence of the past will prove our most essential stimulus.
There is a wonderful challenge in the world today. Many pessimists and noted prophets prognosticate that this fine world is headed for chaos and annihilation. As a student and a citizen, we should set ourselves to the task of seeing that this does not become a reality. We have been given the opportunity denied by so many others, of equipping ourselves with knowledge and education for the tasks ahead. Let us therefore apply the industry and the initiative which our school has helped develop in us. We will not forget Uxbridge High where the foundation for any success we make of life has been laid. Nor will we forget our motto "Per Ardua. Ad Astra" which literally translated means "Through Adversity to the Stars."
We of the 1951 graduating class have met here tonight, not only to receive our diplomas but also to pay tribute to our school. The tradition of Uxbridge has been high and it is the duty of every student who enters her doors to keep her good name untarnished. While we were here we tried to uphold the standards of our school. Now we pass the trust to you, the undergraduates, to cherish her ideals, to profit by our mistakes and to bring honour to U.H.S.
Tonight I speak for the graduating class of 1954. I would like you to know how deeply I appreciate this honour and to assure you that my appreciation is not lessened even if I am not completely successful expressing all that is in my heart.
I suppose every farewell has a connotation of sadness and not only in France but in all places it is true that: Partir, c'est mourir un peu:" to go away is to die a little. That feeling is not lacking in us today when we remember the friendly years we have spent at Uxbridge High School, and our teachers who were so helpful and co-operative and our principal, Mr. Bernhardt, who, both friend and adviser guided us through our darkest moments.
Sometimes during our sojourn here this help and co-operation did not seem too apparent to us, particularly when exams were tough or when we were caught red-handed in some misdemeanour, but I think we have a little perspective now and I can realize more readily that the sense of discipline and responsibility inculcated in our hearts by U.H.S. is even more important to us than the knowledgte of facts instilled in our heads.
But I don't want to give the impression that our life at U.H.S. was all on a "life is real, life is earnest" basis. We entered our field with exhuberance, we played our hardest at basketball and danced the longest at our school parties. We enjoyed every minute of our school life, even in the classroom.
I came across a story the other day about a teacher who wrote on the blackboard, "I ain't had no fun all summer." Then she asked Willie "What can I do to correct that?" Willie hesitated, then said dubiously, "Get a boy friend." Maybe that didn't happen at Uxbridge, but I feel certain that is could have. It is a little intimate memory of this sort that we treasure and hug to our hearts when we think of our alma mater.
Alma mater is a phrase that has beeen used so often that in many cases it evokes no feeling at all, but if we translate it to "nourishing mother" it becomes warm and tender and expresses exactly our feelings torwards Uxbridge High Schhool, which has cherished and understood us during our time with her, but more important, like a true mother, she has guided and prepared us to meet life.
And that is why I think there is no real sorrow in our graduation but only a somewhat nostalgic sadness like that expressed by Longfellow when he mentioned:
"A feeling of sadness and longing
That is not akin to pain
And resembles sorrow only
As the mist resembles the rain."
And there can be no sorrow in our contemplation of U.H.S. realizing that she has accomplished successfully what she set out to do, making us more thoughtful, more responsible, more mature. She has prepared us for adult life in a sphere outside of her direct influence, but we are helped always by the unforgettable memories of her wise counsel and guidance during these years.
We are all familiar with the Latin phrase, "Ave atque vale," Hail and Farewell, and I think our feelings tonight can best be expressed by a reversal of it. Farewell Uxbridge High and all your kindly forbearance, wise discipling and careful teachings. Hail life, the adventure which we feel sure we can meet on a much more equal footing, because of the comprehensive preparation we have received in these years.
Thank you.
Helen Hickling.
What more can I say but thank you, as I speak on behalf of my fellow students in this, the graduating class of 1967 at Uxbridge. We sit here, a group whose hearts are heavy-laden with gratitude for the innumerable gifts bestowed upon up by parents, families and teachers during the past five years.
At this time, I have been given the honour of receiving our many benefits, and must attempt to repay in a few words a debt built up in five years of our lifetimes.
The main characters in this play were our parents. You gave us encouragement when we were down hearted, praised us for work well-done, raised our hopes high after failures and stood by us through times of distress, despair and delight, from examinations to football games. You were always there when we needed you, either to help solve a mathematical equation, or simply to discuss the most recent fad.
Nothing was more important to us, than to know that it mattered to you whether we evolved as successes or failures.
I must not forget an honourable mention for brother and sisters. They too made sacrifices — such as no TV on during pre-examination study periods, and putting up with big brothers bragging after he scored one point in the championship football game. Where would we have been without kid sisters and brothers to cheer us up and make us laugh when we felt like the world was toppling in on us?
Here, allow me to interject a special thank you to a certain family to whom I can never fully express my gratitude for the many services they rendered to me during my high school career, heightened to a peak in my address as valedictorian to-night. Mom, Dad, and Jim, you’re the best rooting section any student could want. Thanks a million again!
Friendships made at school were extremely important to us, and some may last a lifetime. What can be more assuring than to know you have someone living in the same generation as yourself thinking on somewhat similar lines as yourself, to whom you can turn to for advice and confidence? Also, we, as classmates engaged in discussions on a group of never-ending topics, and many modern, but wise, lessons were learned from our peers.
To our teachers, we owe our schooling—a course, which although at times seemed impractical, will constantly recur in our lives, whether we become physicists in a complex nuclear plant or housewives cooking for families. They put before us many lessons, some which we were obliged to accept, others which we could challenge, and at times after. But always they presented us with the opportunity to teach ourselves, one lesson which is invaluable, and never forgotten.
All these people together helped to give us an education. No one individual is responsible for our graduation tonight. We all worked together as in a processing plant into which enters the raw materials to be refined. To the basic substance chemicals are added, treatments given, and impurities ironed out. Hopefully, this seemingly simple, but actually complex system will put forth a product which is in demand by the consumer. So we did embark upon Uxbridge Secondary School as the basic material, not much more than a mere body with a scattering of ideas, most of which concerned learning the latest dance or discovering the name and status of the good-looking guy or gal in the next seat.
But in the years which followed, the vital chemicals were shaken among us by our many creditors, and tonight we embark into the world of the consumer—society. We hope we stand up to Grade A standard.
On this occasion, I have been given the opportunity to reminisce a little, recalling some of the milestones in this, our autobiography.
Many were the times we of this class felt we were the educating system's guinea pigs. We survived through the birth of the new mathematics and biology courses, and restrained our tears when deprived of Grade 11 diplomas. Ours was the good fortune to be the last Grade 12 students who were forced to pay for their textbooks and the first to write the Grade 13 aptitude tests. But in various ways we have benefited from these experiments for all presented a challenge to us. They were just one more barrier which lay in the path of success on the steeplechase course which we followed.
To the students assembled here, I can only say we wish you the best. Your enjoyment of life in Uxbridge Secondary will depend on your attitude towards it. Take it from us, the outsiders, you don’t know how much you appreciate a thing until it is no longer in your possession.
So this commencement marks the crescendo of our high school career and opens the door on the bottom rung of our futures in either further schooling or the business world. Tonight we make our final, official visit to Uxbridge Secondary School as students. As we leave its doors, memories of five joyous years will be all that remains for us, and this no one can ever take away from us.
For my colleagues and myself, once more I thank you. I hope our paths will cross many times during this life, and until they do, may God bless you all.
—Ann Gage.
Mr. Bernhardt, honoured guests, fellow graduates, staff and students of Uxbridge Secondary School, ladies and gentlemen. It is a great honour and privilege for me to speak tonight on behalf of my fellow graduates. It is an honour, but it is a difficult one for it is clearly impossible for one individual to adequately express the varied feelings of my classmates. Tonight is a stepping stone in our lives. For some, it is a mile post that marks the end of one phase of their formal education and points to further education in a higher institution of learning. For others, tonight marks the end of their formal education. A number of us have already entered a career in the working world. It is true that although there is a diversity of occupations, we are all still students, for during the years that we walked the halls of this school, we learned a very fundamental lesson that is - to be aware. Some have learned to become more aware of ourselves as individuals as well as our roles in society. Many of us have gained insights that have shaped our present attitudes and will no doubt influence our future decisions. Not only have we become aware of ourselves and those around us, but we have also been exposed to the awesome complexity of God’s creation as portrayed in nature, as well as the ingenuity of mankind’s scientific inventions. This awareness is the result of education – a kind of education that cannot be gained through the memorization of facts, but rather through the development of the mind to think clearly and logically about the past, present and future. This was our real education. It is impossible for anyone to test such education and subjectively assign marks, but it will be tested; for the true test of our learning will be revealed in our ability to use what we have learned and apply it in our lives. I would like then to express our sincere gratitude to those teachers who were instrumental in leading us to this awareness. We know that you have worked hard and we hope that you are not ashamed of your workmanship as it is displayed here tonight. I hasten to add, however, that this personal awareness did not come totally from our classroom experiences. The academic aspect did not fill the entire picture of our education at this school. We were also strengthened socially and physically. The opportunities to become actively involved in school activities and athletics enabled us to develop our creative instincts as well as to relate to those around us. Important lessons in human relations – tact, tolerance, self-control, consideration for others and the ability to work with others were all taught us both by our instructors and peers. To me, this was a very important facet of our education for unless one can learn to relate to those around him, no amount of academic knowledge will make him a worthwhile member of society. Thank you then, staff members and students for the lessons of life that you have helped us to learn, and we sincerely hope that we have contributed something in return. Moms and Dads – we hope that you are proud of what we have accomplished. We realize we have not always tried our hardest. We know that many times our actions and reactions have frustrated you, but we are grateful that you “hung in there” with encouragement and discipline when necessary. Thank you for trying to understand us in the times when we were groping in darkness trying to find ourselves. Many times the frustrations of life were hard to comprehend and although we did not often show it, we did and still do appreciate your wise counsel. Have faith in us and allow us to develop as individuals. We may appear a bit shaky at times and we may act a little differently from what you think we should, but show us that you have confidence in us and that will help us to make it. Remember that we are still discovering ourselves. We have fewer answers because we have not lived as long as you. We need not your instruction but your guidance to help us to learn what life is all about. Thanks again for your help. If I were to say anything specifically to the present student body, it would be simply this – “Be proud of your school. Get involved in activities that you enjoy and your secondary school experiences will be more pleasant. Strive for excellence in everything you do – especially in your academic work and you will find personal satisfaction in what you have accomplished when it is your turn to walk onto this platform to receive your diploma. You have a school of which I am proud to be a graduate. Please do your part to keep it an institution that is a credit to this community and this country.” Fellow graduates, this is probably the last time that our paths will converge at the same point. We have already scattered to many different areas and are engaged in a multitude of occupations. I want to sincerely wish each of you the very best that life has to offer. Be proud of your work whatever it is and may God’s blessing accompany each and every one of you as you begin this new phase of your life. |